My advice: You need to re-energize yourself. Join a club.
Exercise. Socialize. Get out of your rut and do something
different. Stop sitting on the couch
watching TV and bemoaning your fate and get out there and do something FUN.
Most of all,
check out your personal grooming. Do you
need to get a haircut, shave, trim your nails, wear decent clothes? All of these say a great deal about what you
think of yourself – and therefore what others think of you.